Having Time

If someone wants to be with you they will be. They will make time and move things around just to spend time with you. Then you will have people who will lie and make empty promises knowing that they have no intentions of spending any time with you. They will come up with empty excuses as to why they don’t have time.

The thing is that they will never have time. They don’t want to be with you no matter what they say. If they wanted to be with you they would make time.

Save your time for someone who wants to be with you, not someone that wants to pretend that they do. 

Heather J

It Will Get Better

In your life there will be people that will come in to your world and they will make you believe in the dream. Only to have you wake up and find out that you were living a nightmare. It will hurt but you will get over it. I know I have been there a time or two, three, four. I know you might be asking me how did I survive through the pain. It was not easy there were days that I wondered why. Then just like a light bulb I realized that it was just a life lesson. I could either sit there and cry about it, or I could shake it off and move on. I also think thought that I should not waste my time on people that don’t want to be in my life. Wasting that time is not going to make things change.

Therefore I suggest to you to shake it off and move on.

It will hurt like hell but there will be better days.

 

Heather J

Thank you

I would like to thank you for leaving me. It was the best thing that you could have done. I will not lie it hurt like a knife. I just don’t know if it was the knife that you put in my heart or my back. Either way I would like to thank you. You left me in a position to be free for someone that will be there for me. Someone that has time and will make time to be with me.

Never

Never be afraid to be yourself.

You should never change yourself to impress someone.

Just as soon as you change your self to impress someone else you lose yourself.

Think about it, what happens to you when that person leaves you.

How would you find yourself when you lost yourself?

You spent so much time pretending to be someone else you won’t even know who you are.

Then you must spend time trying to figure out who you are and at the same time trying to

forget them.

Never thinking about the fact that you have lost yourself along the way.

Save yourself time and heartache and stay true to yourself.

There is only one you, so make you the best you that you can be.

 

Heather J

Victory!!!!

There will be times in your life were it looks like all of the cards are stacked against you. You will sit back and wonder why. Why is this happening to me? Then all of a sudden like a light bulb, you will wake up and realize that things are not as bad as they seem. There is a rainbow at the end of all of the darkness. You will realize that you just need to hold your head up high and say “I am going to get through this”. This is just a speed bump in my life and I will roll right on over it.

 Then sit back and plan your next victory!!!

Heather J 

Easy

It is so easy for me to hate you.

For all the lies that you told me.

For the way that you made me believe in you.

For making me feel the way that I do.

For believing that you were honest, and  that you would always be there for me.

It is so easy for me to hate you.

But when I think about it I should hate myself for believing in you.

 

Heather J

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What I Have Learned

I learned a lot from you.

I learned how to be myself.

I learned how to live my life.

I learned how to love.

I learned how to hurt.

I learned how to looked in to someone’s eyes and know they don’t feel the same.

I learned how to love someone who is not capable of loving me.

I learned how to love someone who is not ready to love.

I learned how to live through the pain of a broken heart.

I learned that I am the only person I can truly count on.

I learned that a person’s word mean nothing.

I learned how to see through the lies.

I learned to stop doing things for people who use me.

I learned how to let go of negative people.

I learned that living without you is so much better than living with you.

Butterfly

Music is funny at times, just think about it. There are songs that I loved the beat to but as I have grown older I now understand the words.  Like George Michael’s song One More Try. I actually listened to the words today and I truly understand just how hurt he was. He wanted his lover to let him go because it hurt too much to stay together. Yet at the same time he wants one more try. Sometimes we get caught up in a loop. We get so comfortable that even though we know something is not good for us we stay. It could be that we are scared and we don’t want to venture outside the norm. I get that and I have been there, and there was one thing that I learn. Never stay in a situation that you are not happy in. It will only tear you down in the end. There are so many opportunities that you are passing up living in your cocoon.  Be a butterfly and break out of the shell and live your life. Let people see just how beautiful you are, when you spread your wings and fly.

Oh Beautiful Butterfly,

Heather J

Hello my eyes are up here not on your smartphone!!!

I just don’t know when it all happened. I just woke up one day and it was not there rather should I say that it was gone. Whatever happened to people talking to each other? Even at any restaurant there are people who can only put their phones down long enough to place their order. If they put it down at all. Another thing I noticed is that you don’t even have to pay the waiters any more at some restaurants. They provide a little machine at your table and you pay there. I would like to ask you to look around the next time you’re at a restaurant, and see how many people are on their phones and talking to their family at the same time. I will admit I’m just as guilty as they are but that still does not make it right. Somewhere along the way people forgot the true meaning of Face Time, One on one conversation. Now that I think about it what about eye contact?People are so busy with their day-to-day life that they lack basic common courtesy. They also lack basic respect. I would like for anyone that reads this to place a comment and answer a few questions for me.

  1. When did basic human communication change?
  2. Is there any way that we can ever go back to one on one human communication?

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Worth

There are far too many people out there that don’t know their worth. They would rather stay with someone who does not truly care for them, because they do not believe that they deserve better. They would rather live in pain than to live in freedom. They would rather stay with someone that tears them down mentally and physically, than to live in a life of true happiness.

Heather J.