GRATEFUL

Let’s talk about being grateful. This doesn’t mean just saying thank you when someone gives you something. This means being grateful for everything that has happened to you in your life. I have come to realize that even though I have had some very difficult few years, the pain has help me grow in ways I never thought of before. It has made me a lot stronger.

I am not going to lie, the things that happened to me hurt like hell. But I’m happy that they have happened to me because I am a much better person because of it.

There were times that I wondered why me what, did I do to deserve this. Then like a light bulb I realized it was not me it was them. From that point on I refuse to let anyone disrespect me. I will have to admit I am a lot better since that light bulb went off. It had been dim for so long I thought it was broken. I came to realize that I value myself more than anyone could. I believe in myself and I love the feeling. And it has change me from a Debbie downer to a happy Heather.

This was not an overnight change it took time. You can overcome so many things when you change the way you think.

Heather J