By this I mean sometimes people say sorry just for you to shut up.
They don’t mean it but they want you to shut up. I think somewhere along the way when we were growing up or raising our kids we told them to say sorry. At the same time, we did not let them to know the reason why they should saying they’re sorry.
Take time to think about it.
How many times did you give your child a treat or let them off punishment because they said I’m sorry? That action right there taught them that when they say sorry, they will either get taken off punishment or they will get a treat.
Don’t get me wrong there are times that people say that they are sorry and they truly are. You can just tell by the sound of their voice.
Don’t except sorry if you truly don’t believe a person is sorry. Better yet ask them what are they sorry about.
If they are truly sorry they will be able to tell you why they are sorry real fast.
If they are slow and have to think about it …. then they don’t know and they are not truly sorry.