Let’s talk about being grateful. This doesn’t mean just saying thank you when someone gives you something. This means being grateful for everything that has happened to you in your life. I have come to realize that even though I’ve have had some very difficult few years, the pain has help me grow in ways I never thought of before. It has made me a lot stronger.
I am not going to lie, the things that happened to me hurt like hell. But I’m happy that they have happened to me because I am a much better person because of it.
There were times that I wondered why me what did I do to deserve this. Then like a lightbulb I realized it was not me it was them. From that point on I refuse to let anyone disrespect me. I will have to admit I am a lot better since that lightbulb went off. It had been dim for so long I thought it was broken. I came to realize that I value myself more than anyone could. I believe in myself and I love the feeling. And it has change me from a Debbie downer to a happy Heather.
This was not an overnight change it took time.You can overcome so many things when you change the way you think.
